A popular Nigerian relationship expert, Fegor Chime has reeled out steps that can help a man to make his wife have orgasm during sexual intercourse.
The expert, who often harps on marital affairs disclosed the steps in a post on Facebook.
She wrote:
Men, a good knac-king starts from having a good relationship with your wife. You can’t have a major misunderstanding with your wife while going to work in the morning and expect to come back in the evening to meet a willing woman that will jump into bed with you without having resolved the earlier issue. Mbanu!! I know some women can do that and it’s either they have got very low self-esteem or they just want to obey in order to give peace a chance.
Have you ever asked yourself, “How does she want it?” Some want it to start by sending them some erotic text messages right from work. Some want to hear you speak good things to their ears to get them in the mood. Some just want you to hold them while some just get turned on with your fresh breath. As far as I am concerned, this is where foreplay starts from even hours before the main show. Whichever way she wants it, you have got to discipline yourself to learn her ways.
Learning her ways is not easy but you just have to do it after all, you are both going to benefit from it. From this point of foreplay, there is no rule as to how to go about it and it should not be rushed at all even though you get tempted most of the time. The beauty of foreplay is in its spontaneity which could involve suc…king and stroking the breasts with either your mouth or your fingers. Please be careful and don’t be rough on her breast, it’s not groundnuts biko. Gentle and tender stroking will do the magic not squeezing like you are sucking orange.
Kis..sing, running you hand through her thighs especially the inner parts, kis..sing and lic…king of the parts of the body including the neck, her shoulders, back of her ears or her cli…to…ris which is referred to as cunnilingus will do her great pleasure. You can also fin…ger her. All these are ways of setting up the atmosphere for an amazing experience.
One of the things good foreplay helps you achieve as a man is that it prepares your wife and makes or..gasm easier to achieve. It’s also a great way to bond as many women associate foreplay as a man’s way of taking time and ensuring sex is not just a physical act but about in..timacy. Show me a man that can engage in foreplay and I will show you a man that easily gives his wife or…gasm!
